Dating catholic girl
The selfish part of me wanted him to stay because I didn’t want to be alone, and also because it really just wasn’t the best time for my heart to break into pieces.
It kind of puts a damper on the day-to-day, you know?
We may try to act or look a certain way so that our date likes us.
It’s not a bad thing to want to impress others, but our ultimate goal in dating shouldn’t be to please the guy who asked us out. God created women intentionally, unique within all of creation.
Not only that, but if I truly loved this man as the brother in Christ he was, I would want God’s will for him, too.
Easy to say, much more difficult to embrace and put into practice.
I don’t know about you, but for this girl, that’s tough stuff. It is this: Catholic men take discernment seriously.
They discern if and how to pursue you, how to be in relationship with you, and if they feel called to marry you.That relationship eventually ended because my ex-boyfriend discerned so excellently.He was so good at discernment, in fact, that he broke up with me, something I didn’t really appreciate at the time. I suddenly wished that he was not as hardcore-Catholic as he was.But there is one downside to dating a Catholic man, a downside that is actually a positive, but in my experience can be frustrating and downright painful.This con contains lots of “opportunities” to die to self, and to rely on God.Q: Your husband’s last blog How to Take a Girl on a Real Date had great advice for guys, but what about the other way around? He says if they do this then they will never have a bad date.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating