I was dating a married man

If a woman in Susan's position digs deep enough into the infidelity blogs and self-help guides and finds these facts, she may just save herself before he ends the relationship.

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If friends know, it may be only a best friend, or those in a close circle.

And so, victims of broken relationships with married partners are often isolated, with little emotional support to help them heal.

We’ve both been through our own relationship failures and have learned so much in the process.

We’re both entrepreneurs who understand there are bigger things in life than just a single date, or a one-night stand.

If women like Susan are very fortunate they'll learn more about the behavioral statistics of men who cheat before they decide to deepen their emotional risk.1.

The vast majority of men report that their reason for cheating was primarily sex.2.

Whether she discovers these facts or not, her heart is destined to be broken. However, some data point to the possibility that a broken heart after ending it with a married person can be much more difficult to heal than a broken heart after a more traditional relationship. Cheaters who end relationships tend not to be the most sensitive partners.3.

They may feel that the reasons for ending it should be obvious to their affair partner, and that she or he should just take it like a "big girl."“You knew what you were getting into,” is a not uncommon reason to stop calling, stop emailing, stop texting, and if it is a workplace relationship, stop being nice at work.4. Whether through shame, a desire to protect the cheater, or both, it is often true that no one knows of the relationship.

And why would she stay with him if he doesn’t continue to work that magic that won her?

The intimacy they share, the illusion he creates, is tremendously mesmerizing.

She may perceive it as his commitment, an investment in their relationship.

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