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I have read and heard countless times that guys prefer women with curves and more meat on their bones but I’m starting to wonder about that.

I have some super skinny friends who are considered really hot and always get hit on and then there are celebs who are super skinny, like Olivia Wilde and Megan Fox (she supposedly has a 23 inch waist!

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I was getting irritated by this point, so I said “who” in a grouchy way. Something changed in my brain because I realized the likelihood of that being true.

The point is: love yourself, take care of yourself, most of all treat your body as your temple, because it’s the only one you’ve got, and it’s gotten you through life up to this point.

They had hundreds of men look at pictures of women’s bodies and rate them according to which they found the most attractive.

Then, hundreds of women looked at these same pictures and rated how they than what the women believed to be the ideal weight that men want.

In other words, a woman who is the same size as another woman but has a higher amount of muscle than the other woman will actually weigh more than the less muscular woman.

So even though the woman looks better, she steps on the scale, sees a number she doesn’t like and then gets discouraged.

I’m talking here about unhealthy, eating-disorder induced weight loss – that gives women a sickly appearance that natural skinniness doesn’t have.) I should also mention Well knowing that men prefer a little fat on bones than “just bones” is sad. “You’re an athlete, you pretty sure eat really healthy”. I gain weight but in the numbers, not on the outside, I never become fatter even though the numbers on the scale have increased. And the boys by this age start “looking at girls” and I know many that have body shamed some girls I know.

My dad is skinny and also my mom, so I am now too, what can I do about it? I always wanted my tights bigger or some meat on my skinny arms, or, you know, some fat on my butt. To be honest, I’ve always loved my bodie and yes, I still do now but sometimes when i overthink, it starts to bother me, but not too much because I am very confident, and most of the time i don’t get bothered by those thoughts. I like what I do, I like my slightly muscular though still skinny tights and arms, my abs and I like living healthy like that. No one ever body shamed me, like out loud, but I’m pretty sure I know what they think.

I found the amount of pain in these comments very overwhelming.

I wanted to share something that helped me love myself a little more.

Never listen when they shame you for your bodie or your looks. Sexy women resemble ‘news and weather’ women on TV.

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