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I'm a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend recently broke up with her.Along with the usual feelings of grief and heartbreak, I'm feeling a lot of guilt about how I handled our sex life, which was one of the main issues in our breakup.
But if we can share those feelings with the person we love without fear of judgment or reprisal, it can help create a space of comfort and intimacy that no piece of ass will ever be able to compete with—no matter how hot they are or what they may or may not have between their legs." As for the reasons you're feeling insecure—your boyfriend might be gay and/or happier with a man—I'm not going to lie to you, ANGST.
Your boyfriend could be gay (some people who aren't bisexual identify as bi before coming out as gay or lesbian), and/or he could one day realize that he'd be happier with a man (just as you could one day realize that you'd be happier with a woman).
(I've been with men and women in the past; he's never been with a man.) I know it is unfair of me to feel this way and he's never given me any real reason to fear this.
We have a very engaged, kinky, and rewarding sex life! This situation is complicated by the near certainty that my boyfriend has some sort of hormonal disorder.
It all depends on how you address them when they arise. That way they end up bringing you closer, rather than drive this invisible wedge between you.
The key is to understand that feelings aren't always rational.
You and your boyfriend are both in the process of figuring out who you are and what you want.
It's possible he'll realize you're not the person he wants to be with, ANGST, but it's also possible you'll realize he's not the person you want to be with.
"But maybe because the potential 'pool of applicants' is over twice as big for us Bi folk, we get stuck with twice as much of this irrational fear? But here's what I do know: most Biphobia (and jealousy for that matter) is projected insecurity.
Built into the fear that someone will leave you because they 'like x or y better' is the assumption that you yourself aren't good enough." And while feelings of insecurity and jealousy can undermine a relationship, ANGST, they don't have to. "But we can turn these moments into opportunities for open communication and intimacy rather than moments of isolation and shame.
I don't know if I'm projecting my own issues onto him or if I'm just being bigoted towards bi men, but either way, I feel truly awful about it.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating